I want to share something that I believe is revolutionising conscious monogamy and long term relationships.
Its something that has transformed my relationship with my body and my man in profound ways!
Shakti Sex (feminine sexual energy flow) = Different from Shiva Sex (the sex most people are used to, masculine sexual energy flow)
Without Shakti being honored, women tend to shut down sexually in long term relationships.
Some signs of this are:
♡Finding excuses to not be intimate and sexual with your partner.
♡Pain during and after sexual play
♡Feeling obligated to have sex and please your man.
♡Wanting sex to be over and done with as quickly as possible
♡Feeling like sex is another “To-do” or chore
♡Feeling turned on by other men and maybe women but not your man
♡Feeling turned off and cringy or ashamed and embarrassed about all sex, even when watching a sex scene in a movie
♡Conveniently being too busy or arguing when the possibility of sex with your man is available
♡Feeling bored and underwhelmed by the sex you have
♡Feeling more like friends than lovers
♡Not expressing your authentic truth in the bedroom and your relationship in general
♡Numbness or not experiencing the full range of pleasure your body has within her
♡ Disconnect and going into your head during sexual play
♡Performing rather than being embodied
♡Rushing to an end goal and focusing on orgasm and ejaculation
♡Contemplating whether the grass is greener else where
♡Worrying about your man being unsatisfied
♡Feeling resentful of your mans sexual desire for you
♡Feeling pressure and tensing up at the thought of sex
♡Inhibitions in the bedroom
♡Lack of total surrender
♡Lack of true enjoyment during sexual play
♡Needing a certain sequence to occur or for your man to say exactly the right thing for you to be “up for it”
♡Avoiding sex completely- sexless relationships
Its likely your sexual relationship with your man only honours SHIVA sex. The masculine energy flow.
Not many women or men even understand what Shakti sexual flow means.
And its caused an EPIDEMIC of ‘shut down’ women or women who are hyper-sexualized who eventually totally shut down too. It has caused an epidemic of sexual apathy. Sexual unconsciousness and limited sexual experience!
This lack of honouring the UNION ..meaning SHAKTI as well as Shiva..has meant that couples end up breaking up and divorcing because their approach to sex is totally unsustainable for a woman.
The good news is there is another way and the even better new is that men will actually experience THEIR fullest potential too…
Because SHAKTI is the spark that ignites SHIVA into his full power! With Shakti, Shiva can become full body orgasmic and he will experience pleasing his woman like never before and THIS is truly what men yearn for!
His awareness and honouring of Shakti will shift him into his most empowered expression.
HER honouring of her own Shakti will allow her to experience the gifts her being and body have to offer her.
Its time to unite in ways that nourish long term turn on and long term sexual BLISS!
It IS possible!!!
I invite you to Reawaken Your Yoni – my 6 week online course starting on 2nd April 2019. I invite you and encourage you to come on this powerful journey of sexual empowerment for you and your relationship or future relationships: