yoni secrets…
Women are so often told that pleasure is about:
“Thinking s.ex.y thoughts.”
“Trying harder to be in the mood.”
“Creating s.xu.al fantasy to induce horniness”
“Using friction and lots of stimulation to get off”
“Reaching a goal every time”
But here’s the truth most women don’t realise:
Deep, expansive pleasure doesn’t live up in your head or just in your heart. It doesn’t thrive with overstimulation, and it emerges with your authentic presence. It doesn’t live outside of you…
Expansive pleasure begins with an intimate relationship with your Yoni (not just your mind and heart)
Pleasure lives inside your root first and foremost.
This is the base, the foundation, the starting point.
Not your fantasies.
Not your thoughts.
Not your affirmations.
Not just in your loving connection with your heart space
Not your desire to “try harder”, “turn on quicker”.
Not your technique or in stimulation.
And not in agenda.
I’m not saying those things are wrong or bad or not useful- I’m saying if you want a depth of intimacy with yourself that allows true expansive pleasure to emerge then start with your connection to and relationship with your Yoni.
your yoni is where your deep pleasure begins.
In your womb, pelvis, root, feminine centre:
Because pleasure is not just mental.
Pleasure is somatic.
It is cellular.
It is energetic.
It is instinctual.
It is rooted in your nervous system,
not your thoughts and not just your heart.
This is why a woman can WANT pleasure,
even fantasise about it, even crave intimacy and still feel nothing in her body or a limited expression of pleasure in her body. This is a form of what’s called “arousal discordance” (but that’s for another post)
>This is why her desire feels inconsistent,
>why her arousal never truly and fully activates,
>why she struggles to let go,
>and why she feels like a version of herself is missing and not expressed.
Nothing is broken. There’s nothing wrong with you.
And this really isn’t about trying harder.
It’s about slowing down to sense, feel, listen, acknowledge, honour.
Honestly, in my own experience and when I have worked with women,it has boiled down to simply this:
Her Yoni has not been fully included
So, her body is not online and her pleasure not operating at full capacity
Her root is not truly open, receptive or expressed.
And no amount of just mindset or even just emotional or heart-based work alone can override the body’s deeper held truth.
Your Yoni is intelligent. Your yoni makes decisions. Your yoni decides what you feel – Not just Your gut, heart and mind.
In fact, your yoni is intricately linked and woven with your gut, heart and mind too…she receives those messages. She receives ALL the things.
In my opinion through all the work I’ve done personally and with women, I believe the Yoni is the most intelligent part of our body (controversial I know).
I’m not taking about just sexual arousal and just acting on that. This is SO much more sophisticated than just primal urges, although those can be very interesting too, right…
Your yoni:
>Tenses when she feels unsafe.
>Softens when she feels heard and held
>Opens when she feels connected.
>Numbs when she’s overwhelmed.
>Shuts down when she’s ignored.
>Awakens when she feels devotion.
>Constricts when she is overstimulated both mentally, emotionally and physically
This means…
pleasure is a RESPONSE, not an effort.
Pleasure is a communication, not a performance.
Pleasure is a body-state, not just a thought-process.
Your Yoni guides.
Your pleasure follows
The harsh truth is..
Most women were never taught how to:
- listen to their Yoni
- soften, tone and dexterize (I made that word up- “become dexterous”) their pelvic floor
- create safety in the body, nervous system and root
- receive instead of perform
- awaken pleasure without pressure
- feel their feminine energy in the root
- manifest from the pelvis
- understand and trust their Yonis innate wisdom
- connect to and utilise their life-force
So, they try harder mentally and with stimulation. They effort their way to pleasure.
your yoni knows how
What if you can relax your way instead. Heal your way. Nourish your way. Give your yoni the right conditions so that pleasure naturally, organically emerges?
The mind and heart cannot do the Yoni’s job. And nothing external will ever allow you to experience the depths of intimacy and pleasure your yoni yearns for.
Without your Yoni fully online…
pleasure, power, intuition, manifestation, and feminine energy
all stay stuck in the head and even heart, unable to descend and ground fully into the body and 3D in ways that deeply nourish you.
So much of manifestation, spirituality, even heart based healing AND even sx education misses out the final stages of integration- The intricacies and complexities of your yoni.
When your Yoni awakens fully, everything changes.
Pleasure becomes natural.
Arousal rises without forcing.
Desire returns.
Your body softens.
Your heart opens.
Your manifestations sustain.
Your intuition strengthens.
Your feminine power becomes embodied.
You feel… more you.
More alive.
More connected.
More receptive.
More magnetic.
This is why I don’t want your 2026 to be another year of “thinking your way”, or trying to be in your feminine without including the very aspect of yourself that is a pure expression of your feminine energy…
It must be the year you embody it via and with your yoni.
The feminine feeling space is IN BODY. EMBODIED and it stems from your Yoni.
This is exactly what we do inside Yoni Magic Method Membership (YMMM -Yum right?!)
A 12-month feminine temple journey where you reconnect to:
✨ your Yoni
✨ your feminine root
✨ your pleasure
✨ your power
✨ your intuition
✨ your embodiment
✨ your sensuality
✨ your manifestation
✨ your softness
✨ your magic
Where you heal and transform at the root!
>Through monthly Yoni Magic Sessions and Sharing and Witnessing calls
>Monthly Q&A support
>Weekly Check-ins
>Seasonal teachings
>Goddess Activations
>And a sisterhood of women returning to their true EMPOWERED feminine selves.
If your Yoni is whispering or screaming “YES”…
you already know this journey is meant for you, then please reach out and let me know. And please share this with any other women you sense will benefit and appreciate. Sharing is caring!
Early bird pricing is opening very soon for women who already feel the pull.
Prices and payment plans have dropped in and landed in me now yay:
YONI MAGIC METHOD MEMBERSHIP – 12-Month Temple Journey
EARLY BIRD (until Dec 12th):
• £44.44 per month (monthly(12)payment plan)
• £444.44 pay in full
FULL PRICE (After early bird closes):
• £88.88 per month (monthly(12) payment plan)
• £888.88 pay in full
Or x4 £222.22 (three-month instalments: total £666.66)
Journey open 1st January 2026. Early bird ends December 12th 2025.
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