feminine orgasmic secrets
Many women have heard of orgasmic manifestation and orgasmic energy being potent energy of creation, but they don’t know how to access this energy or how to utilise it in their life.
It’s likely you’ve heard the term “be more in your feminine energy” so that life flows better, but what does that actually look like?
It’s likely you’ve heard of “orgasmic manifestation” but how exactly can you do this?
A lot of women get stuck in doing mode with the very things that are about our innate way of being. Meaning they see practicing feminine and orgasmic practices as a to-do, a goal, a linear thing when really it’s about nourishment, flow, receiving, curiosity and a way of operating and BEING with life. It is less about doing and more about allowing and organic emerging.
Women can be limited in their experience of their orgasmic energy due to conditioning around orgasm and sex.
Women can reject their feminine energy due to negative judgments around feminine stereotypes or past trauma and conditioning.
These powerful feminine and orgasmic secrets have been hidden for millennia. We have been told only part of our sexual orgasmic, feminine power and often it’s a manipulative, immature, skewed or perverted version of the truth.
Obviously now these teachings have started to be revealed and shared more. It is becoming more and more popular. This is absolutely amazing, but it also poses some issues due to the way these things are being portrayed in the mainstream.
There are specific practices passed down by ancient gurus AND there are modifications of these practices, as well as peoples own self-exploration.
There needs to be a level of responsibility and an attitude of care for self and others when utilising these ancient techniques and powerful tools.
One of the important things to remember is ethics, virtues, integrity, authenticity. In yoga these are called “Yamas and Nyamas”; Your ethics and virtues. The 8 limbs of yoga help a person to live in alignment with love, empathy, compassion, grace and also have boundaries and standards. Similar to the Christian 10 commandments and similar to the Hippocratic oath that health professions take; “First do no harm”.
Like the quote in one of the Spiderman films – “With great power comes great responsibility” ha ha It’s so true and it’s nothing to fear or feel pressure or obligation about. It is something to feel empowered by.
In nearly every culture, philosophy, concept and religion a core promise or pledge and way of living is recommended, and it is about being highly conscious and considered.
Using your feminine and orgasmic energy must be explored from this core promise and intention. Otherwise, it is not authentic or true feminine energy. Ill intent, pure selfish endeavour at the expense of others or the planet, using it to harm others so that you get what you desire is wounded feminine and wounded masculine and will only lead to poor outcomes.
Using feminine and orgasmic energy in an unconscious or vindictive way is a misuse of orgasmic energy and can backfire tenfold! Truly.
This is not to fear monger at all. I trust you to be able to hold these truths and use your feminine and orgasmic energy wisely and from the space of your loving and empathic heart.
In fact, the heart centre plays a HUGE role in both of these magical abilities.
With all this being said, lets get back to my main point….
Women simply do not understand or know how to access and utilise their feminine and orgasmic energy.
where women go wrong
Women tend to turn to masculine ways of manifestation such as the matter to matter things like strategies, proven formulas, focusing just on the numbers, being just goal driven, pushing, forcing, competing, rushing.
Women tend to try to micromanage life and control outcomes. Being a control freak prevents the level of trust and surrender required to enter flow states.
Women can often turn to just surface level mind-set work but lack integration and embodiment and often do no experience the deeper energetic shifts. Some mind set work can truly cause deep energetic core cellular shifts for sure but even then, that alone won’t allow a woman to access her most intimate power.
Women often think orgasmic manifestation is about having to feel horny, sexy and have loads of orgasms (usually peak orgasms). Now those things can by all means be included if they are authentic to you in the moment, but they are not essential at all. Orgasmic manifestation (I prefer the term orgasmic magnetism) and feminine energy do not have to require peak orgasm at all. In fact it’s the deeper orgasmic states, the valleys, rolling hills and ocean waves that prolong bliss states and focus on the most magnetic parts of the Yoni, that are even more potent and beneficial. Even no orgasm at all. The energy generated without orgasm is incredibly nourishing and highly attractive.
Women often think that feminine energy means having to be girly or wear pretty pink frilly dresses. Although your inner girl and your innate beauty and style come into play, YOUR feminine ENERGY is authentic to you.
There’s no use putting on a floaty dress if it truly doesn’t align with your authentic self expression.
AND there’s also space to overcome judgments and resistance and actually experiment with feminine ideas, constructs and clothing that suit your style and your essence.
Sometimes women stubbornly choose to not allow themselves to even try on how it feels to wear satin, velvet, skirts, floral patterns; stereotypical feminine expression and it comes from a wound not their true expression.
A lot of women use their body, sex or their sexuality as a bargaining tool and from a space of negative manipulation and control. This is wounded feminine and not empowered. This is one I have had to work on massively what with being a stripper in the past and learning at a far too young age that my body and sexuality can be misused. Deep down I used it for validation, not manipulation. A lot of times the urge to manipulate and control comes from deep rooted fear.
A lot of women try to use what they think is feminine energy but really it’s masculine. They are twisting vocabulary such as “inviting, attracting, feminine flow” when really they are trying to GET, go getting and hustling.
You can’t fool the energies of the universe by the way!
The good news is you don’t have to do any of this anymore.
it’s within you right now
Your feminine energy and orgasmic energy come from within you and are unique to you. You sensuality is the bridge between these energies, your body and the world around you AND the Universe/Divine. Your heart space plays a key role in all of this. Your sexual self and your innate orgasmic nature is already within you and it can take time to connect and let it emerge.
Here’s my top 10 favourite ways to access my feminine and orgasmic energy for an enriching life:
- The Heart Space – heart consciousness, heart coherence, heart opening, heart felt, amplify through the heart, expand from the heart, raise the frequency via the heart, filter through the heart first. Super consciousness happens via the heart and cannot happen without the heart centre. Unity with The Divine, Bliss states, Energy orgasm, Kundalini awakening, Beyond the 3rd dimension, Altered states of consciousness and body, Relaxed arousal all happen with the heart space! Connecting your yoni with your heart creates superconscious. It’s so simple yet the most powerful. You simply use your awareness, intention and breath to sink into your heart space and yoni and create a deep connection between the two.
- The Feeling Space (from a relaxed nervous system, from the inner calm- the true feeling space, the deeper feelings)- calm the mind to access your true feelings. In society we are conditioned to numb our feelings and push on through regardless. We also operate in high stress responses that cloud our true feelings and so people have learnt to mistrust their feelings. These days we are also taught that you have to only focus on the positive and positive think your way out of your feelings. Your true feelings are the key to your feminine energy and your orgasmic magnetism. Without feeling and expressing your true feelings you stay stuck and tense. Energy cannot flow. Vibrancy cannot emerge. Magnetism will not activate.
- Feminine Truths – living more in feminine energy requires understanding of what feminine energy looks like on a tangible, practical level. Feminine aspects are: Cyclical, Fluid, have Diffuse awareness, are Journey-orientated. The feminine is the element of WATER. It Requires TIME, is RECEPTIVE and RESPONSIVE, is in the FEELING space, is Inviting. Feminine energy is also about authenticity, worth, values, standards, creativity, intuition, trust, surrender, receptivity, safety, devotion and self-validation. The Empowered Feminine expresses as:The willingness to be “seen” and express needs and desires authentically, trusting the masculine energy, being present in the now, surrendering to the process and allowing yourself to receive and experience.The Empowered Feminine always has her inner empowered masculine supporting her.
The Feminine is the spark of desire. The invitation, the muse, the inspiration.
- Empowered Feminine Communication.- I love using my 10 step empowered feminine communication formular. It’s about speaking and coming from YOUR feelings space, authentically, without agenda and with curiosity, being clear and concise, whilst self validating and being unattached to the outcome.
- Authenticity- This one to be mentioned alone. Your authenticity is your feminine energy and orgasmic superpower. The more authentic you are the more enriched you feel, the more magnetic you become, the more you receive your truest deepest desires and the more others feel safe to be their true selves with you. Authentic expression is your true feelings expressed, true desires expressed, true needs expressed, true boundaries and standards expressed, true fears expressed. It is your true intimate expression in any situation.
- Sensuality – Living an embodied sensual life.
>Sensual touch, elements of touch, self-massage, self-pleasure.
>Sounding, music, frequency, breath work, words of appreciation and compliments
>Nature walks, Aphrodite’s bath, showers, water rituals,
>Aromas
>Flowers and colour, art, visioning, beauty
>Flavours, nourishment.
>Movement such as Yin yoga, womb yoga, dance, sensual and erotic dance.
>Relaxed arousal states; relaxing your nervous system whilst being sensually and sexually aroused and delighted. - Multi-orgasmic Nature– Exploring my innate multi- orgasmic ability- blended orgasm, ocean waves, valleys, rolling hills, orgasmic states, bliss states. Pleasure without peak orgasm. Organic orgasm. Healing orgasm. Learning and practicing self-pleasure practices. I love Tantric practice, sacred sexuality practice, Taoist practices and my own exploration. The key is to allow what is. To stay present by using your awareness, intention, breath, sound and movement. To let emotions flow. To release goal and agenda. To move through blocks to bliss.
- Relaxed arousal– I mention this A LOT because it’s so important. It’s about your parasympathetic nervous system-rest and digest whilst becoming sensually and sexually aroused. It’s through relaxation you access your feminine energy and orgasmic potential.
- External expression– I love to play with fabric, textures, patterns, colours, style,- things that make me personally feel feminine, erotic, sensual, orgasmic and that feel aligned to me. Being playful with your external expression can truly shift your energy and cause an aliveness within you that radiates out. Changing things up, being experimental and also brave. Expressing your internal essence externally is a deeply powerful way to access your creative life force energy.
- Sexual and Yoni care – Sexual and yoni healing and pelvic care practices; yoni massage, yoni breathing, yoni reflexology, yoni gazing, yoni love, deep vulnerable intimacy with your self and your body. Your sensual, sexual and erotic aspects of you. There’s no goal to orgasm, no goal to even feel pleasure. This is about maintaining pelvic and sexual health and vitality. Without this you cannot experience your orgasmic energy in in all it’s expressions and you will likely struggle with all the other things I have spoken about. Your Yoni and sexual self are the most intimate, vulnerable, and core aspects of your feminine and orgasmic energy.
When I devote to, practice, allow and implement these things I become embodied in my feminine and orgasmic energy. These energies are fuelling me, they overflow from me, they enhance my life naturally and organically.
I become more magnetic. More vibrant. More energised.
I can use them more effectively by bringing in intention, focus, ritual, devotion and using my masculine structures to support the feminine flow!
I use them like prayer. Like mediation. Like mindfulness. I use them to be more authentic, aligned, magnetic and energised. They naturally cause allure, attraction, magnetism and power.
I use them like magic. Like miracles. They are mystical and sacred.
Over time I have learnt to trust in these energies. The are God/Goddess given. They are Divine. We were designed this way for a reason.
They are abundant, ever loving, every flowing, and a source of nourishment for me and everyone around me.
These aspects of me truly do positively impact everyone around me too.
I’m not always in this space. I have my own issues, anxieties that creep in, social phobia in certain situations, I dim my light, I play small, I shrink and I get into low vibe states, ruts and all the things all humans experience. This is why and how I know even more so that when I am aligned and in my feminine, orgasmic flow the difference is like night and day!
Over time this way of being has become my default way and it helps me navigate the challenges in more grounded ways.
Your feminine and orgasmic magic sometimes requires you to go into your shadows. Into your darkness. Into the parts of you that are scary or outrageous too. To get to know these parts of you so you can integrate, heal if needed and work with them in healthy ways.
There are specific Tantric, yogic, pelvic and feminine techniques I have learnt that I teach to my clients and customers that allow them to access and harness their authentic feminine and orgasmic energy.
I’d love to share some juicy offerings with you….
if you feel the calling…
All of the things I’ve spoken about relate to 6 teachings I share within my work…
- Sensitising to your sensuality and senses
- Activating your Empowered Feminine energy
- Exploring your wild, erotic and magnetic self
- Courageously delving into your darkness
- Allowing your deepest and true desires to be expressed
- Being emotionally mature and highly conscious
The offerings I recommend most if these are things you require support with are:
Sisters Of Eros – 2 day play-shop retreat UK and 4 week program exploring 6 female archetypes.
Awaken Your Pleasure – 6 Module either online home study or private 1:1 program – An experience taking women from any kind of sensual and sexual shut-down and limited pleasure to becoming fully sexually and orgasmically expressed
Rising In Love – 12 Module 1:1 program for women in long-term monogamous relationships exploring conscious monogamy, expansive love making and relationship skills.
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